Table Of Content

CONTENT

BY DAVID MAYO

Articles

  1. Technical Remarks – by David Mayo (2)August 15, 2012
  2. Service Facsimiles – by David Mayo (3)August 7, 2012
  3. Thoughts on the Grade Chart and Abilities – by David Mayo (11)July 25, 2012
  4. Past and Future – by David Mayo (3)July 17, 2012
  5. Disillusionment – by David Mayo (1)July 17, 2012
  6. Integrity – by David Mayo (2)July 11, 2012
  7. Goals And Happiness – by David Mayo (0)June 30, 2012
  8. On Men And Gods – by David Mayo (1)June 26, 2012
  9. The Importance Of Training – by David Mayo (0)June 23, 2012
  10. On Goals & Purposes – by David Mayo (2)June 20, 2012
  11. ON THE PURITY OF TECH by David Mayo (4)June 17, 2012
  12. Technical Purity – by David Mayo (2)June 13, 2012
  13. Clear – By David Mayo (3)May 27, 2012
  14. David Mayo on the Origin of NOTs (3)May 28, 1996

Video-records

  1. Sunday Talk on Disillusionment (2)May 27, 2012
  2. Non-metered Auditing (0)February 8, 1986
  3. Legal Defense Fund Dinner October (0)October 5, 1985
  4. Advanced Ability Center (2)March 27, 1984

Audio-records

– Tech

  1. Honesty and Case Gains, by David Mayo (0)January 27, 1986
  2. AAC Lectures by David Mayo (16 audio-records) (0)January 28, 1984

– History

  1. David Mayo’s talk re final years with L. Ron Hubbard (3)June 11, 2012
  2. David Mayo talking about Hubbard’s final research (1)February 27, 1984

 

Open Letters and Affidavits

  1. A Goal – by David Mayo (0)July 29, 2012
  2. To Whom Do These Rights Belong? – by David Mayo (1)July 2, 2012
  3. On Squirrels And Nuts… – The journal of AAC, March 1984 (0)June 18, 2012
  4. Recollections By David Mayo (5)May 27, 2012
  5. Re: Scientologists Fear Open Discussion (0)June 11, 1996
  6. UN-FAIR GAME (0)June 10, 1996
  7. My position on a.r.s (alt.religion.scientology) (0)May 12, 1996
  8. 10th Anniversary of the Church of the New Civilization (0)March 3, 1994
  9. DAVID MAYO AFFIDAVIT (0)May 1, 1987
  10. DEBRIEF: DAVID MAYO (0)December 8, 1983
  11. An Open Letter to All Scientologists (0)July 1, 1983
  12. MERRILL MAYO’S OPEN LETTER (0)January 27, 1983

Interviews with David Mayo

  1. Interview in Palo Alto, Ca – 1986 (0)August 28, 1986

Goals And Happiness – by David Mayo

June 30th, 2012

When we speak of goals, we are talking about a person making a decision to be something, to do something or to have something and seeking to bring that about. Most simply stated, a goal is a decision or a postulate; the two tend to be synonymous.

Recently people have asked me why we don’t currently audit people on goals. This is an interesting question, in that, although we don’t use processes that are called “goal processes”, you can’t actually audit anyone on anything but goals.

Because people are trying to accomplish various things in their lives, the auditing which they receive should be in the direction of helping them to accomplish those goals, or in the direction of removing obstacles that would prevent them from accomplishing those goals.

At times, auditing has been viewed as an effort to get rid of something unwanted. Or auditing can be seen as an effort to get rid of what is referred to as the “bank”, or to handle a “case”. These are only some aspects of what we are trying to do in auditing. Far more importantly, we are trying to help people create new abilities or rehabilitate and increase abilities that they already have. Thus the real purpose of auditing has to do with bringing about the accomplishment of one’s goals.

There was a specific auditing procedure done a few years ago called “Goals Processing” – a special technique that often interested people because of it’s name alone. “Goals Processing” suggests help in the accomplishment of goals, but that wasn’t really what this procedure was designed to do. In that process, a person listed goals which he had had in the past, the auditor would find the most charged one and then would run it out. The theory behind this technique was that if a person had a goal which became havily charged in the past, he would get stuck in the past on that goal; either stuck still trying to achieve a long ago goal; or perhaps stuck in the failure of trying to achieve that goal, which would influence  his actions in the present.  As such, the use of this process was somewhat limited because it depended on whether the individual was stuck in the past on a goal or not.

Many people hoped to find out precisely what their goal was by doing “Goals Processing”, and then to be  able to accomplish that goal. There were some people who would try to find their goal as if there was some magical thing that was their GOAL and if they could just find out what IT was, life would somehow go better. And to some degree there is some truth to that, provided you realize that a person’s goal is whatever he chooses to make it – whatever he wants to do at the moment, or for a lifetime.

Discovery and accomplishment is in the realm of positive gain and it is in that direction that auditing best done. If a person has auditing goals for improving specific abilities the auditing is more likely to be successful. Too much concentration on getting rid of things tends to be limiting.

To achive true happiness by the accomplishment of one’s goal, one must understand the composition of happiness. There is one definition of happiness that states that happiness is the overcoming of obstacles toward a goal. That can be true, but happiness doesn’t necessarily occur just by overcoming obstacles. There has to be a bit more to happiness than that. In order to bring happiness, a goal must be worthwhile or of value – and it must be beneficial to others. This immediately takes a goal, or happiness, out of the realm of being a selfish, or purely self-interested matter.

I heard a radio commentary recently where someone referred to the Sixties as being the “me” decade because at that time people were involved in finding themselves and being themselves. But, being one’s self is not enough to make one happy. One must also do something of value, and in order for that to occur, it is necessary to interact with and help others.

There are some things that enter in to whether or not a person will successfully achieve his goals. A person’s basic personality and outlook on life are important to reaching goals. If someone decides to see out towards a goal which is greatly at variance with his personality and the things he likes, it is unlikely the goal will be achieved – a lot of reasons for not doing things toward the goal will come up and he will do what he really likes doing instead. Such a goal is not actually a personal goal, it is an idea that the person has decided to adopt. An obvious example of an adopted goal would be a person accepting what others want him to do as a goal.

The matter of establishing a goal is simple, if one approaches it simply. But, people sometimes set goals based on what they feel would be pleasing to or approved by other people. And that is a mistake. In order to successfully set a goal, one must be sincere.

For you to be successful in your goals, it’s necessary for you to determine what you really want to do. Then figure out how others could benefit from your achievement. If you do this, you will come up with a goal that you can achieve and the doing of it will be pure pleasure.

It has long been known that people are not acting at their full potential (or to the full capacity of their abilities). I think that to a large degree it is not just because of engrams and aberrations. I think it is also because they haven’t formulated a goal that is something that they would like to do and that is beneficial to others. I think this is the key to happiness: Set out to do something that you are capable of doing and would enjoy doing and which helps yourself and others at the same time. Then you will have a happy life.

There’s an intimate connection between setting your goal, achieving it, helping other people, happiness and aliveness. And I think a very simple route to being more alive is simply to review what one is striving towards.

Often when we talk about a process or a drill, it is agreed that the E.P. of it shouldn’t be known. But, I’m going to suggest a drill and, in case also tell you what the E.P. is likely to be, because it will be useful.

When determining a goal, go through a series of goals and ask yourself:

  • Is this goal beneficial to myself?
  • Is this goal beneficial to others?
  • Is this goal something I would like doing?

You will look at various goals, and probably end-up by realizing that you had a goal all along, that you were working on it, and that you “knew” it all the time.

Although this might sound like there isn’t any discovery or learning involved in this little exercise, there is in that you now can be certain about what goal you have. [Attempt], whether or not it’s the right thing and within your ability to achieve, and you can enjoy working towards it.

I hope these words are helpful.

From AAC Journal 1984-86

  • Добавить ВКонтакте заметку об этой странице
  • Facebook
  • Twitter
  • LiveJournal
  • В закладки Google
  • StumbleUpon
  • email
  • PDF
  • Print
  • RSS
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 31 32 33 34 35 36 37 38 39 40 41 42 43 44 45 46 47 48 49 50 51 52 53 54 55 56 57 58 59 60 61 62 63 64 65 66 67 68 69 70

To stop the posts rotating, press the “||” button in the left low corner of the posts display window.
To read the whole post, click on it’s title (in blue) that will open the post in a new window.

 

Testimonials

Audio

  1. John Zegel – tape # 1, 1982 (0)January 27, 1982

Video

  1. Ian Waxler, Class VIII – “I have nothing but the highest regards for David Mayo…” (0)June 11, 2012
  2. Mary Freeman, Class VIII – Now and 30 Years Ago (0)October 28, 2011
  3. Frankie Freeman, Class VIII – About David Mayo, C/S (1)March 28, 1984

Articles, Affidavits and Open Letters

  1. We did share some good times and adventures on a personal level… (0)April 1, 2013
  2. I was embarrassed that I had allowed my opinion of someone be so easily swayed… (8)February 2, 2013
  3. Mary Freeman – A little history (0)August 12, 2012
  4. Robin Scott – David Mayo is the prime target (1)August 4, 2012
  5. Kevin Mackey – I’d like to apologise to David Mayo… (3)August 1, 2012
  6. Mark A. Baker – “Mayo’s only interest was in helping others through the delivery of tech” (0)June 24, 2012
  7. Juanita Pyle – “HE CARED” (0)June 23, 2012
  8. Raymond J. Krenik, Jr. – It is my fervent wish that David Mayo will soon once again be free to communicate with us all… (0)June 19, 2012
  9. Mary McConnell – “He was driven by his desire to help” (0)June 17, 2012
  10. Ralph Hilton – “I must admit I was somewhat amazed…” (3)June 11, 2012
  11. Dan Koon – “It just can’t happen” (2)May 30, 2012
  12. Pat Krenik – “David Mayo” (1)May 30, 2012
  13. Robert Dam – Who stole NOTs (0)January 28, 2004
  14. Jesse Prince – “The following are specific instances I have either been a party to or observed…” (1)October 2, 1998
  15. FreeZone.Org – CREDIBILITY OF THE RTC (0)September 17, 1983
  16. FreeZone.Org – THE CAMPAIGN AGAINST DAVID MAYO (0)September 15, 1983

News Articles

  1. David Mayo – photo (4)January 22, 2013
  2. Forbes – website (1)August 15, 2012
  3. Santa Barbara Independent 23 January 1993 (0)January 23, 1993
  4. Sinking the Master Mariner (Sunday Times Magazine) (0)October 28, 1984

  • Добавить ВКонтакте заметку об этой странице
  • Facebook
  • Twitter
  • LiveJournal
  • В закладки Google
  • StumbleUpon
  • email
  • PDF
  • Print
  • RSS
Comment are closed.